The breathing pacer
A guided, paced breath with a longer exhale. Follow the circle. Two minutes is enough to change how your body feels.
Breathe in as the circle grows. Breathe out, slowly, as it shrinks. Don't force it. Let the breath follow the shape.
Aim for about two minutes. If you feel lightheaded, stop and breathe normally.
The in-breath and the out-breath pull your nervous system in opposite directions. Breathing in nudges you toward alert. Breathing out nudges you toward settle. When the exhale is longer than the inhale, the settling signal wins.
This isn't about big, dramatic breaths. Big breaths can actually make anxiety worse. It's a normal breath in and an unhurried, slightly longer breath out, repeated. The pacer above runs a four-second inhale and a six-second exhale, a comfortable longer-exhale rhythm for most people.
Breathing settles the body in the moment. To work on the loop the body is responding to, I'd start with the Pattern Library, where each loop has its own page, and how the shrinQ system works, which walks through the four moves I use. When you want the full structure, the shrinQ program is where I teach it.
One breath is a tool. The system is the practice.
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Common questions
A normal breath in and a slightly longer breath out, repeated. The pacer here runs a four-second inhale and a six-second exhale, a comfortable longer-exhale rhythm for most people. It is not about big, dramatic breaths, which can actually make anxiety worse.
Breathing in nudges your nervous system toward alert, and breathing out nudges it toward settle. When the exhale is longer than the inhale, the settling signal wins. A slow, extended exhale raises activity in the parasympathetic branch, the part that brings the body down from alert.
About two minutes is enough to change how your body feels. Follow the circle, let the breath follow the shape rather than forcing it, and if you ever feel lightheaded, stop and breathe normally.